Service Learning this year was much more fun than last year, that's for sure. If you ask me, I'd rather handle these kids than deal with people who are much older....
This year, only about half our class turned up, plus Luke so, Nat was a little worried that we couldn't handle that many kids.
Initially, I assumed that handling kids would be a piece of cake but they proved me wrong. This bunch was really hyperactive but very lovable. Upon reaching the home, 'could tell we were quite lost but after awhile, we started to get more acquainted with the kids.
The whole time was spent reading storybooks to them, coaching them academically (although very minimal as they seem to dislike studying a lot!), playing games with them (I think I'm gonna be sick of "Heart Attack" and "Scissors, Paper, Stone!") and talking to them.
I wished we prepared better activities for them, maybe some outdoor games, 'cos they were really bored. Imagine spending the whole time, cooped indoors, learning origami and vegetable painting, playing charades and hearing songs that you probably wouldn't remember anyway? Well, credit goes to our favourite teacher Ms.Ng Swee Chu for being so paranoid about the children's safety....
Speaking about Ms.Ng, I think she spoiled part of this experience. Like what I ranted about in my earlier blog entry, she was really paranoid about EVERYTHING. That's why we didn't have any outdoor games and more interesting activities. During the programme itself, she was such a mood-dampener. When the children tried to play with her by pretending to shoot rubber bands at her, she shouted at them, telling them to stop such a dangerous act otherwise, she would refer them to their discipline teacher (....) When another kid tried to shoot at her again, she offered a sweet in exchange for the rubber band (which would endanger her life) and gave the poor guy a lecture about honouring their word (as if such a young kid would know what it means to "honour" his words...). AND, we really should have gone on to teach them Christian songs instead 'cos the kids would rather listen to those than to our futile attempts at performing the song to them. Moreover, heard from my classmates that she didn't dare to go close to the Indian kids...sigh...man, it would take forever just to go on complaining about her.
On a lighter note, I got to see a different side of my classmates rarely seen in school. Some of the girls were cuddling up to BEN SUM, Evatte surprised me all over again with her patient nature (last time was when we went to the Spastic Home), Charlene was playing "Scissors, Paper, Stone" with Boon Peng, Rhyss was being her usual "mother hen" self while Sam showed motherly potential. Speaking of Sam, Mediacorp was there at the same time, filming a documentary, and Terence Cao and Chen Hanwei was there. Sam was going crazy over them man! HAHAHA! TOO BAD SAMM!!! YOU CAN GET THEIR PHOTOS ANOTHER TIME! :P
Also, I was quite amazed that Luke could handle the kids relatively well...heh heh....
Learnt many things during this project. Besides the fact that we're very fortunate, it brings me to the issue that kids can be quite bitchy. It may be due to their troubled past or just their inherent nature but I wished they were brought up in a better environment. Ok, maybe it's pointless to brood about this but I wish I could do something about it. In fact, I will after A Levels :D
Finally, the trip was also a sort of re-affirmation that everyone needs love and everyone wants to feel appreciated. Everyone, in this context, also applies to us of course...Take Xiu Ling, the kid that I spent most of the time with, as an example. She was ostracised from a group of girls who called themselves the "Chinese Dancers" and one could tell that she was quite affected by that. When I talked to her and showered my attention on her, she was much better after that but when I left her alone, she immediately called for my attention again.
Also, this experience makes me wanna pursue what I can safely say would be my desired career in the future: psychology :)
"L", is for the way you look at me, "O" is for the only one I see...
just noticed Suf's face at the back! :D

Xiu Ling!
one of the rare moments where you see the children being this attentive...

Francesca!

Terence Cao's no.1 fan ( I mean Sam!)

